Freedom & Responsibility

As we start a new year, here at Mountain Associates, we have been reflecting on the impact of social media on our wider society. The positive ethos of social media is the concept of giving and receiving. Through these instant internet systems we are now able to give and receive recommendations from others that (hopefully) assist our business profiles. Basically, if you give out positive recognition (strokes in TA), to others you are more likely to get something good back. This, in a nutshell, is also what life in general is about. When we are prepared to recommend others and not hold on tight to our links and connections, this positive energy is more likely to come back to us.

In short this is also about freedom and responsibility. We are free to keep our own links to ourselves or we have the freedom to share these. We also need to take responsibility for giving and what we give, without expecting to receive. In order to consider freedom and responsibility we need to be able to take the role of the “other” and establish empathy and appreciation of the other’s perspective.

It is not only individuals who need to consider the issues of freedom and responsibility but so too do organizations. These will be translated differently within each organization dependent upon the organizational script (a life plan made outside of awareness that involves discounting).

Whilst organizations do not have ego states they do have elements that correspond to them and these are communicated through the primal leader/s or euhemerus. When working in organizations, whether in a coaching or consulting capacity, or as an employee at any level, we need to reflect on how issues of freedom and responsibility are exercised – or have they been exorcised?!

When considering change we need to take a look at both the interpersonal and social systems of the organization.

"…… if all the individuals within the institution were suddenly to change their life scripts, the institution would continue to function as usual until its operational procedures were also changed. Similarly, the institution’s procedures could be changed with little effect on the individuals’ life scripts. Thus effective change must involve both the individuals changing their life scripts and the institution or social system changing its operational procedures on the social and psychological level”. (Joines in Barnes, 1977, pp 270-271)

To bring us back to the theme of freedom and responsibility and social media it appears to us that we have an opportunity here to develop a new culture and put a new show on the road. This “new show” has the potential to radically change how we are with each other across cultures. We are co-creating or co-constructing a way of being that is about giving and sharing and in ways that we have never seen before. Let’s harness this freedom and ensure we take our responsibility in how we do this – whether this is at the individual or organizational level.

We would love to hear from you about how you believe social media is influencing our society for the better. Also, what do you think about the idea of freedom and responsibility in organisations?

References:
Joines V.S. (1977), An integrated systems perspective. In G. Barnes (Ed), Transactional Analysis after Eric Berne: Teachings and practices of three TA schools (pp257-272,) New York: Harper College Press
(N.B. This publication uses some outdated models of TA so if you do follow-up the reference please bear this in mind).


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Know Where You are Going

When we are going on holiday we have the route mapped out. We follow the sign-posts and hopefully get there without too much difficulty. On the odd occasion we might take a wrong turning but either our map-reading skills, our enquiries or our sat-nav. will tell us how to get back on the right route.

Somehow though we can be somewhat vague when thinking about life and where we want to get to. We even ask children what they want to do when they grow up, we don’t ask them what they want to create in their lives.

When we go on holiday we have some decisions to make and so it is with our lives. What do we want to create in our life? How will we get there? Will anyone go with us or will we do it on our own? If we get lost what will we do – feel annoyed, give up, become anxious or find the right way for us? All of these things are about choosing options and getting the balance between freedom and responsibility. Too much choice without a structure can be frightening for some, whilst too much responsibility can be overwhelming. Obtaining the right balance for us, as an individual, will help us to create what we want in life.

First we must choose our goal. Goals or visions are about what we want to create in our lives and how we want to be, including our values and ideals etc. When we have developed our vision we can decide what primary decisions we need to make to move toward that vision. When these areas are congruent we will feel in harmony with ourselves and with our life.

What do you want to create in your life?